THE Christmas season is a time for celebration, joy and togetherness with loved ones.
However, for children and teenagers, this period can also pose unique challenges and risks. As a parent, guardian, or caregiver, it’s essential to be aware of these potential dangers and take proactive steps to protect your child.
One of the significant risks facing teenagers during the Christmas season is alcohol abuse. It’s crucial to monitor parties and gatherings, knowing where your youngster is going and who they will be with.
Make sure they understand the risks of underage drinking and the importance of saying no. Set clear boundaries and expectations, discussing the dangers of alcohol abuse and the consequences of breaking the rules.
Encourage open communication, creating a safe and non-judgmental space for your minor to talk to you about their experiences and concerns. You remember that video that circulated last festive season of children drinking alcohol, that’s not tolerable at all.
Another risk facing minors is drug abuse. Educate yourself and your young adult about the different types of drugs, their effects and the risks associated with them.
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Watch for signs of drug use, such as changes in behaviour, mood, or physical appearance. If you suspect your child is using drugs, consult with a counsellor therapist or addiction specialist.
Unfortunately, serial abuse or rape is also a reality that young people may face.
It’s essential to educate your family about consent, healthy relationships, and respect for others' boundaries.
Encourage open communication, creating a safe space for your child to talk to you about their relationships, experiences or concerns.
Watch for signs of abuse, such as unexplained injuries or bruises, changes in behaviour or mood, or withdrawal from social activities.
If you suspect abuse, report it to the authorities immediately. If you suspect that your child is a victim of serial abuse or rape, it's essential to handle the situation with care and sensitivity.
Listen to your child without judgment, believe their story, and offer support.
Report the abuse to the authorities immediately and seek professional help from a counsellor or therapist.
Sex predators tend to take advantage in the cheerful and joyous festive season.
In addition to these risks, young people may also engage in other risky behaviours, such as cyberbullying, online harassment, or sexting.
Monitor your child’s online activities, teach them about online etiquette, and ensure they understand the risks associated with these behaviours.
If your teenage child is a driver, and is always behind the wheel, emphasise the importance of safe driving practices, such as wearing seatbelts, following speed limits, and avoiding distracted driving.
To keep youths safe during the Christmas season, it's essential to stay connected and maintain open communication.
Set clear rules and consequences, ensuring your child understands the expectations and boundaries.
Seek support from other parents, caregivers, or professionals when needed. Have a wonderful Christmas and remember to keep it safe!
Bessie Masiya is a primary school teacher and a multi-sports coach. She can be contacted on bessiemasiya@gmail.com and her X handle is @Bessie_Masiya.